Happy Birthday to The 1st Born.
37 years ago, your grandparents and all your uncles were at the house awaiting your arrival. It was June, hot and you were a bit late. Haha
Between 11pm and midnight, I began having little belly ” cramps”. I’d never been in labor before…what did I know? I thought I had gas! Lol I’d just roll over and go back to sleep. At 7am, not wanting to wake anyone, I slipped quietly into the livingroom to watch the clock and started timing “cramps”. Soon, granny got up and heading to the restroom, noticed me there. Almost immediately, EVERYONE was watching the clock! By 8am, we’d called the doctors office and headed off for the near 30 min drive. Upon examination, I was indeed in labor but….the hospital was overwhelmed and asked if I could wait awhile!
You bet! We went to Waffle House for coffee and pecan waffles! (This would later prove to be a mistake but what the heck? It was your last prenatal meal) Let me tell you, not a soul in the restaurant was going to leave while I was there and in Labor. There was a line around the building!
500 W. Medical Center Blvd, Webster, TX 77598
Once we got to the hospital, the number of women in labor had not eased. My labor room for the next several hours would be 3 cots crammed into a cleaned out supply closet. Around 9pm, I finally got a real labor room. The labor pains were coming every minute or two but by then, I was so exhaused, I fell asleep between them. In 1981, natural child birth was all the rage ( WTH?) but after so many hours and still only dilated to a 5, my doctor begged me to take an epidural. Granny, watching her own 1st born, struggle those long hours, begged too. I conceded and in no time, I was ready to go! Just before 11pm, they attempted to deliver you. That’s when things went nuts! Your heart stopped and my heart rate started plummeting. Everyone started scrambling! With little time, they rolled my shoulders to reach my spine and paralyzed me from the neck down so they could take you. Soon, I heard your cry….I cried too.
You’ve come a long way since then.
From delightful child.
Jr High Sweethearts.
Honors Society, High School
Dean’s List and Football in College
Serving Your Country
Marrying Jr High Sweetheart!
Becoming a dad 💕
Today is a special day. A day we uniquely share together…the day of your birth and my very first day as a mom. You’ve come a long way, baby, with many steps between and I have been so proud of you in them all…. from your very first one. Happy Birthday, my son.
Love, Mom
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Thank you so much, Kitten! 💕
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This.is.beautiful 💕
Stay blessed 🙂
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💕 I’m unbelievably honored! Thank you so much, Kristian!
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Awww!
I find myself forgetting so much as I age but the day all mine were born seems burned in my mind for eternity, if I forget it all,those memories are enough.
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Its true, creation of life within our bodies and bringing life into the world…only another woman could even truly understand
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As mothers, we always treasure those memories doesn’t we?! Happy birthday to your oldest!!
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Thank you so much, Angela! 💖
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So beautiful and lovely❤️❤️❤️I’m a mom myself and this almost brought the tears. Remember the labor and all the years is so important. Nothing can compare to become a mom
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Thank you so much! It is the most difficult and terrifying job on earth! But, also the beautiful and blessed. 😊💕
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Indeed❤️
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What a lovely story! Happy Birthday to your son and many blessings to you. 💗
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Thank you so much, Hang! 💕
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A lovely story Laura. And what a beautiful outcome.
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Thank you so much, Robyn!
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Isn’t it amazing – how life progresses and expands! So blessed.
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It’s true!
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Beautiful!!! A very happy birthday to your son!💕
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Thank you so much!💕
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PS: Big, fat, hairy fairies do you look like you have a kid of 37… someone round here invented that new math!!
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Hahaha Thank you! I actually had him when I was 19. Married young, 😊
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What a beautiful story! Many happy returns of the day to you both 😍
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Awww..Thank you, Britchy!💕
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Wow! What a story! A very happy birthday to your son and a lovely day of remembering for you 🙂
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Thank you so much! 😊
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What a beautiful message!! 💙💙💙 happy birthday and more healthy years ahead for ur child 😉
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Thank you so much!!!!💕
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